LA-My family has a tradition: the eldest daughter doesn’t go to college. She stays home. Takes care of the house. Marries young. Has babies. Grandma did it. Mom did it. When I got accepted to Massachusetts Institute of Technology, Mom tore the letter in half. “This is not who we are.” I taped it back together, left at 5 AM the next morning, and didn’t come back. 7 years later…
My mother tore my MIT acceptance letter in half because she believed eldest daughters were born to stay home. Seven years later, I used the future she tried to destroy to buy my niece one of her own. In my family, tradition was not something gentle. It did not smell like cinnamon rolls on Sunday…
